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Old 11-03-2010, 04:12 PM
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That's great! I can't wait to read about what happens next! I wish you the best.
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Old 11-04-2010, 03:46 AM
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Oh, shit. Maybe things went too fast. She emailed me tonight and asked if I'm still in love with Flea, and said, “getting emotionally involved with someone I can't have is unhealthy for me.” How do I explain that she can “have” me? The only barrier here is that we live so far away. Lots of people have LDRs. Maybe she will see things in a different light tomorrow.
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Old 11-04-2010, 09:58 PM
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Oh, shit. Maybe things went too fast. She emailed me tonight and asked if I'm still in love with Flea, and said, “getting emotionally involved with someone I can't have is unhealthy for me.” How do I explain that she can “have” me? The only barrier here is that we live so far away. Lots of people have LDRs. Maybe she will see things in a different light tomorrow.
My suggestion is not to go into more convincing over the phone/email and to keep that line of communication more cheerful. Fly over to see her without expectations of having more, go see her to have fun and have a good time with her. Enjoy each other company, show her that you can be with her and you can be to each other whatever level of interaction/relationship you are both comfortable to be in with each other (okay that was a weird sentence...).
I could also be just rambling...
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Old 11-08-2010, 06:41 PM
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I think I over reacted a little. Everything is fine. We've been talking and she has proclaimed her feelings for me. The trip is still on. I guess the question in my original post has been answered. Thank you all for your support and encouragement. Time to start a new thread I suppose.
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Old 11-08-2010, 09:34 PM
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Awesome! I feel all warm and fuzzy inside now.
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