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Old 11-05-2010, 08:45 PM
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I really truly thank all of you from the bottom of my heart for these responses. They saved me. And I'm being serious. Where I felt cheated on before and was devastated and felt so sad ... reading these replies has really changed my perspective on things. You guys have truly saved me.

I no longer feel cheated on at all. I'm not even sad anymore. I think this was a learning experience to say the least.

And last night we Three sat down and talked about what happened and where we want to go from here. It went well, and before too long we were all snuggly again.

The weekly meeting to check in with each other is a FANTASTIC idea that we are going to implement right away. We are going to be okay.

Thank you so so so very much!!!
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Old 11-05-2010, 09:46 PM
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So have you talked about relaxing or revisiting the "we only play together" rule?
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Old 11-05-2010, 11:47 PM
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We talked about both. But for now, we are going to start over and take things slower. Since my husband and I are so new, we should have taken baby steps into things and not rush it. But we got excited. Our girlfriend is HOT! hahaha

For now we are going to relax. But we will re-visit the play together rule in the future. The things you guys have said here make sense to me about reevaluating that.
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