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Old 10-31-2010, 06:55 PM
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Selene Selene is offline
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Default I want your attention!! (Communication Issues)

Hi all.
First off, I'm Selene from the party of 7 (Andulvar: my primary, Marius, Company, Vegeta, Ariel and Thunder). If you've been reading Marius's threads, you probably know a bit about me.

I'm quite new to this and still getting adjusted, but there is a pressing issue that I don't quite know what to deal with. So here's the thing: Andulvar and I live together in one house (House A) and everyone else lives in another (House B). These are located in the same apartment complex, so we're not more than 5 minutes away from each other.

I have begun feeling that everyone (except Andulvar) is a great deal closer. For instance, its quite rare that we get phone calls to go do something, and I get them more than Andulvar does. He is very depressed about this and we did bring this up with everyone, who said that they were sorry and would try harder. However, I don't see this...I'm trying to be patient and see how it plays out, but its hard when you hear about a group shower and you weren't invited. It makes me feel like I'm not considered or that I'm only there when it's convenient.

It's making me very, very angry inside and I have a bit of an anger problem to top this off, so...I'm trying to figure out the best way of action with this.
I'm...falling in love with these people and it hurts to think that I'm not being considered. It hurts more in the possiblity that Andulvar is not being considered, if anything.

Any advice would be awesome, of course, and please don't hesitate to tell me if you think I'm being ridiculous because I don't always catch it. Also, let me know if I can clarify anything for you.

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