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Old 10-26-2010, 08:37 PM
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Hubby says to do what I need/want - we'll figure out everything else later.

My sense of obligation says do what's best for my family.

UGH.
Sounds like your hubby is willing to shoulder the burden of the family on this. Let him be your hero, let him be the faimly hero. Ok, I know that actual situation makes a difference, but how often have you sacrificed your needs for the needs of the family out of obligation, just because you didn't ask for an alternative.
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Old 10-27-2010, 01:46 PM
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Decision was made for me. And not a happy, I get to have fun this weekend decision. A "sucks to be you" decision.

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Old 10-27-2010, 03:56 PM
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Decision was made for me. And not a happy, I get to have fun this weekend decision. A "sucks to be you" decision.

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Is this a "not going to visit RP and Derby" decision?
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Old 10-27-2010, 04:13 PM
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Decision was made for me. And not a happy, I get to have fun this weekend decision. A "sucks to be you" decision.

UGH.
I have mentioned your ability to be awesomely vague before, right?
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Old 10-27-2010, 04:19 PM
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Is this a "not going to visit RP and Derby" decision?
I sent Derby an email which she has my permission to share with you... but short answer is yes. I don't get to stay the extra night.

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Old 10-27-2010, 04:20 PM
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I have mentioned your ability to be awesomely vague before, right?
You're on my facebook - its all there LOL - just not the reasons
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Old 10-27-2010, 04:39 PM
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You're on my facebook - its all there LOL - just not the reasons
jesus I gotta hit 3 sites to track your life down. fet, face and poly
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Old 10-27-2010, 04:42 PM
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jesus I gotta hit 3 sites to track your life down. fet, face and poly
Stalker.

You could always email/text me directly and ask me...
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Old 10-27-2010, 04:45 PM
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Stalker.

You could always email/text me directly and ask me...
ya I could,but I like feeling cool ...haha
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Old 10-27-2010, 04:54 PM
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I sent Derby an email which she has my permission to share with you... but short answer is yes. I don't get to stay the extra night.

I read this and thought that you wanted me to post the email...I think maybe I need another cup of coffee! (aren't you glad I read your post again before sharing the email with EVERYONE)
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