It's interesting, RP, that you've chosen 2 introverts as life partners, when you yourself are so extroverted. Have you asked yourself why you did that? I know you love both of them very much, but I've heard you complain about your frustration around this, esp with PN, so much.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
"Master," (mono, 36), miss pixi's Dom for 3 years