Originally Posted by Derbylicious
I'm still working on why.
The "why" wouldn't even be important to me if I didn't think it will eventually impact aspects of my relationship; I would just turn away. But I think it's worth looking at for me because the more I choose not to participate the more I can expect to pull back from more and more of our community. Now that I have a space and shared property to look after I could easily lose myself in home repairs and riding. I have to watch that. I could turn into a handyman room mate more than a intimate partner LOL!....wait now..at least Redpepper would be free to date whoever she wanted..hmmmm I'll run that by her ;( I'm going to wear it for that one. When's the next Sagacity?