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Old 10-16-2010, 03:31 PM
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So, I got dumped last night. I feel down and confused. My 2nd boyfriend decided that it was too much to handle. He told me that he could not share me and he would get himself into trouble if I ever came to visit him. He does not want to only spend a few days with me at a time and then "send me off to another man". I have known this guy for years (7). We have had some issues with this before so I'm not completely surprised. It's just a bummer. I thought he was actually getting used to the idea of me being poly. It seemed like he wanted to give it a try. I guess I was being selfish. He told me it would be best if I didn't contact him again. That's the part that really hurts. I know it's best for him. He's still very young. It hurts. I've spent years trying to show him how much he means to me. He just can't deal with any type open relationship. I'm just venting. If this post is in the wrong place I do apologize. I know it's silly to say it but I feel as if I'll never find a man that can handle me (and my boyfriend). Ah, heartbreak. No matter how many times I deal with it, it never gets easier.
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