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Old 09-25-2010, 02:35 AM
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mono's get a bad wrap on the "controlling" thing no? Is there not a positive term to use that indicates their "dedication" or "full attention" to a partner... I find nothing wrong with that. I don't find mono "controlling" and I haven't known too many others that I would describe as such, but I do know quite a few that I admire for their attention and dedication to a partner. It's a matter of whether you want that from a partner or not I think. I love that about Mono... I find that I need to be careful not to possess him, something that is usually reserved for what people say about mono's!

The uniqueness of a mono/poly relationship is very special. I don't think the line is that large, maybe misunderstood and judged. At least that is my take from where I sit.

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