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Old 08-09-2009, 10:17 PM
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Ok, so as you know I'm seperating from my ex atm. She is still living here until sat. then she's leaving.
There has been a lot of bad blood as she sees my leaving her for sg & ab, which is NOT the case. Sg told a 'friend' about our situation, as I outlined somewhere else on here, can't remember where. She is nothing but a bitch and has tried to cause problems for us. Recently she contacted my ex, and now they're talking.
This morning I was bad. She left her computer unattended and I snooped. I found msn chat logs between these two and sent a copy to myself.

Upon reading them, I find both of them talking shit about both me and Sg, another friend, and our relationship. There were talks about reporting me to the Australian government, immigration... I am not a threat to the country, but this could cause me problems trying to get there. Hassles more than anything.
Also, I come to read, that she was planning on writing a letter to my parents basically 'outing' me. Now I fully intended on telling them in a few months once things settled down. It's not her place to tell them.... Near the end of the chat log, I read that she has ALREADY called my father and told him. This would have been wednesday, now my parents left thursday morning to go to a family reunion, so i can't get in contact with them. I don't know if she was just saying this to that woman or if it was true, and now I'm freaking out because I'm relying on them to help me get there, and if she's told them, I may be fucked.

I'm afraid to tell her I've found these logs, afraid to confront her because she has been violent in the past, and who knows what other problems she could cause for me.

I dont know what to do! I'm freaking out and I sent the logs to Sg and she's fuming as well... What should I do when I'm afraid for my saftey and my future? I would say try to keep my mouth shut but I need to know if my parents know for sure so I can try to repair any damage she may have done!!

"Thou art to me a delicious torment." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

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