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Old 09-22-2010, 02:40 AM
Tonberry Tonberry is offline
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Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG View Post
Thanks for clarifying Tonberry.
No problem What I mean is always clear in my head, but I should remember to make it clear in my posts too!

Always feel free to ask, I don't mind discussions even when there are disagreements. And since we work differently I assume we both need a lot of help to understand each other
Me: 32F, straight
Seamus: My husband, 33M, straight
Fox: My boyfriend, 30M, homoflexible
Dragon: Fox's husband (and my ex), 30M, pansexual
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Old 09-22-2010, 06:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Tonberry View Post
Most friends, even close friends, would never ask for something like that. They might object to a specific person because they personally dislike them or think they're not a good friend to you, but that's it.
I think the way I feel is less "I have needs" and more "I will feel locked up and resentful if you impose these limits on me. Only I have the right to impose them on myself, and I don't see a point to them so I won't."
Total agreement here. Even when we are in team situations, there is an individual aspect to consider and reevaluate periodically. Yes?
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