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Old 09-21-2010, 04:49 AM
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Default Secondary guilt/triggers?

I was visiting one of my long-distance boyfriends this weekend and met his local, primary girlfriend for the first time. She was tense and uncomfortable during the visit (tea at a local shop) and later on she sent him an email saying she'd been a bit freaked out by meeting me, though she said that it wasn't anything either of us had said or done at the time.

I've actually been dating my boyfriend longer than she has, though she sees him more often because of the distance between he and I. I was surprised and have been feeling increasingly anxious and a bit guilty about causing problems between them, as well as nervous about repercussions for me and my relationship with him. I've let my boyfriend know how I feel but I am wondering if anyone else has experienced this, and how you've dealt with it?
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