Polyamory.com Forum  

Go Back   Polyamory.com Forum > Polyamory > General Poly Discussions

Notices

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #21  
Old 08-07-2009, 04:35 AM
DestinyWaits's Avatar
DestinyWaits DestinyWaits is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: East Texas
Posts: 50
Default

Mono man, you come up with some of the best responses on here!!! Sorry, no noise problems here unless you are talking about the ones where we have to worry about the kiddos hearing and both of mine sleep with their tvs on so no problems there.
__________________
There is no life without freedom, the freedom to be who and what you are.
Reply With Quote
  #22  
Old 08-07-2009, 04:41 AM
redpepper's Avatar
redpepper redpepper is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 7,634
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG View Post
The sad thing is they think I'm alone!! You don't even make a sound
whateeeeeever....
__________________
Anyone want to be friends on Facebook?
Send me your name via PM
My blog
Reply With Quote
  #23  
Old 08-07-2009, 04:48 AM
MonoVCPHG's Avatar
MonoVCPHG MonoVCPHG is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: In Redpepper's heart
Posts: 4,742
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
whateeeeeever....
OK, I admit you did scream one time during sex but it was only because I woke you up...but seriously, you were missing out on some of my best work
Reply With Quote
  #24  
Old 08-07-2009, 04:50 AM
MonoVCPHG's Avatar
MonoVCPHG MonoVCPHG is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: In Redpepper's heart
Posts: 4,742
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by DestinyWaits View Post
Mono man, you come up with some of the best responses on here!!! .
Take a look around on some of the other threads and you'll see the flip side of my responses..not so pretty I am afraid
Reply With Quote
  #25  
Old 08-07-2009, 06:27 AM
Ricavaler's Avatar
Ricavaler Ricavaler is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Posts: 29
Default

Noise... we have small children, having quiet sex is the norm
Reply With Quote
  #26  
Old 08-07-2009, 06:47 AM
vandalin's Avatar
vandalin vandalin is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: Minneapolis, MN
Posts: 520
Default

yeah...hubby and I wouldn't want to wake up our baby...or my mother. lol
__________________
Life is about the journey and not the destination,
so what better way to know life
than to wander all the roads and paths set before you.
Reply With Quote
  #27  
Old 08-07-2009, 10:51 PM
XYZ123 XYZ123 is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: Brooklyn, NY
Posts: 369
Default

We're quiet. I've had to change my sexual expression so much. I used to be a screamer. But we have a little one. And my parents live upstairs and I always just feel like they can hear me, even though it makes no sense.
Reply With Quote
  #28  
Old 08-08-2009, 04:56 AM
Mark1npt Mark1npt is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Sunny FL
Posts: 344
Default

1. Yes, my two loves (both women) are built a little different anatomically, are wired differently emotionally and prefer different things in the bedroom.
2. As could be expected, my wife of 27 years has a little different sex drive than I do(hence me poly).....and my OSO (other lifelove) is reveling in the NRE and love life she now has after an essentially sexless/loveless marriage of 30 years, so her drive is higher than my wife's.
3. We do not have a threesome. Both women are hetero, monogomous with me only and unlike most poly guys, I'm not really driven by group sex with multiple women and don't feel compelled to pressure either of them into it.

As for a cooling off period, my wife def has one, though it's lessening, my OSO not. I don't have one either.

As for noise, my wife and I have been rather quiet for 20 years with kids sleeping upstairs above us. Now that they are out of the house, less so. My OSO is more vocal and I find I am more vocal around her. Since we all live together, out of respect for my wife and elderly mother, we try to maitain some decorum. I would love if we never had to stifle our passion/ emotion in that way.
Reply With Quote
  #29  
Old 08-08-2009, 01:31 PM
NeonKaos NeonKaos is offline
Custodian
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: new england
Posts: 3,221
Default

We don't have kids and I grunt and moan as much as I want except when we're camping and there are people around.
Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT. The time now is 04:38 PM.