how do I talk about this with him
hey guys. I'm new here and was hoping to get some perspective on my situation. (i apologize if this scenario has been played out and beat to death but I'm having trouble navigating the site from my phone) my husband and I havr been togetjer for just over 5 years total (married for almost 3) and have never been in a poly relationship. It's something that I have always been interested in and I've broached the subject many times. We have talked about it frequently and he seems to be becoming more and more interested in the topic. The issue at hand is that in his head he seems to be wanting the ever popular unicorn....a triad with the hot bi girl that loves and wants us both equally. I am completely prepared for the possibility and probability that that will not happen. I don't believe my hubby is though. I don't want another man...at this point in my life it's not what I'm looking fior. So we are definitely on the same page as far as that but I think the trouble lies in the fact that I don't think he understands and is kind of hurt by the fact that I want another RELATIONSHIP not just sex......DH is completely ok with having a threeway but I'm not possitive that he's prepared for a relationship in which it doesn't involve both of us equally or at all for that matter. Please forgive me if I seem to e babbling I'm just not exactly aure what to say to get my point acrossed.