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Old 09-13-2010, 10:56 PM
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Default For those of you with live-in primaries...

Ugh! Not even sure where to begin with this one... but it's nagging the hell out of me.

My partner started chatting with someone new online the other day. Told me about her, yada yada, yada. Yesterday afternoon, he tells me she asked him out to a movie. (He never said he accepted.) Shortly after, we have sex. I head for the shower after and try to coax him in with me. He refuses and then LEFT! He was gone a few hours, and when he came home, did not say a word to me. I went to bed.

This morning, he kept hitting his snooze and going back to sleep. I finally got mad enough to get up and give up trying to sleep. I didn't sleep well all night either, as I was cold and upset about him going out abruptly. FOUR HOURS later, he drags his lazy bum outta bed. He has not spoken to me all day, and just left for work.

How would you feel in my situation? Am I being absurd for being upset? Part of me wants to see how long it takes him to ASK me why I'm upset, but on the other hand, I am so damn angry I might just blow.
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