Hi, everybody. new to this whole thing and looking for some like-minded folks to converse with. My wife of nine years and I recently fell into this whole poly thing quite by accident. She started having feelings for an old friend of hers she had gotten back into contact with via the Interweb. We went through many of the things that other people on this forum went through early in their struggle to realize their new poly lifestyle. It was only AFTER we came to the conclusion we wanted to live in this way did i find out through research on the 'Net that not only is there a word for it, but a whole community. I are still pretty new to all of this, and I am looking forward to learning a lot from everyone here.