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Old 09-09-2010, 07:41 PM
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I have to chime on to this thread too....cuz yup, it is sort of a cool thing!

My experimentation with Orgasms didn't start till my mid thirties . Sadly. Very sadly. At this point, I was able to see why I had been holding back with many orgasms, and that was because of the ejaculation - I had NO Idea!

Since then, we keep lots of towels close by and when she blows she blows. I would describe my orgasms as being the best of my life now - so intense and mind blowing, however for the ejaculation to occur, I have to be totally 'comfortable' and let go....so that has not happened in a threesome ....yet.

The mind blowing orgasms have kept me going though!!! THE NRE coupled with the big O chemicals is what makes me want to make this whole thing work out. And what a work out it is!!

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Old 09-09-2010, 08:18 PM
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Tonberry, I totally get what you're saying about orgasms, I experience the same, but over the years the wiped out feeling has changed. Or at least I fight it more. I like my love to just lay on top of me after and put their whole weight on me. It calms my body down. Also with the water! I'm soooo thirsty!

I have more shallow orgasms too that are more dry, yet wet enough. The whole excessive wetness is s prolonged ejaculation I am lead to believe. When its focussed that is when there is an ejaculation.
My issue, if you can call it one, is swelling. I get hard in the labis area. So much so sometimes its hard to get in. Fingers are fine but a cock sometimes not unless its really hard. Anyone else experience this?
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Old 09-09-2010, 08:59 PM
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Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
Anyone else experience this?
I have never seen anything like it before but it is fantastic!

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Old 09-09-2010, 09:52 PM
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I get swollen too in my clitoris and labia, but I would say not enough that it's hard to get in. And it really depends on the day... It's not 100% linked to how excited I am, that is, it only happens when I'm very excited, but doesn't happen every time I'm very excited.
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Old 09-09-2010, 09:56 PM
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Originally Posted by TruckerPete View Post

GAH. I should not be reading about this at work. Wonderfully uncomfortable!
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