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Old 08-06-2009, 07:00 AM
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Default First signs of jealosy with sisters.

Have been dating two sisters for about a month now. I dated one previously and we've come to incorporate the other somewhat equally. Now the original sister is accusing the other of trying to steal me.

On top of this she's also informed the mother, further complicating things. What should I do to make sure she feels that she's not getting slighted? And what about the mother?
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Old 08-06-2009, 07:10 AM
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Well, this is interesting! I would think that if it doesn't work out that the two of them could have some lasting issues as a result....

Don't they say that siblings should never share a bf/gf? Can't think why they say that though...

Sorry, I really don't have one drop of knowledge on this one..... I once dated brothers and it ended badly, well, we all got a STD and although it was treatable, it freaked us out.... ! I was very young then

Whatever works! Good luck...

What's up with the mother that complicates things?
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Old 08-06-2009, 07:16 AM
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What's up with the mother that complicates things?
What wouldn't be wrong with the mother? No offence to anyone but this strikes about as many "Gerry Springer" cords as any relationship I could imagine..hmmm. It is interesting though.

Best of luck with this my friend!

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Old 08-06-2009, 01:21 PM
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I think you should try to get the idea out there that you are not property and, therefore, you can not be stolen. Neither one of them has the power to make you care for the other less. Then try to find out why she is feeling that way. It is not easy getting people to talk about these feelings, but if you can get it started, it pays off long term.

As for the mother, she will accept it or not. Her main focus will probably be on the happiness of her daughters. If they accept the relationship, then she may evebtually accept it.

Good luck.
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Old 08-06-2009, 02:02 PM
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It's "Jerry" FYI.
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Old 08-06-2009, 05:20 PM
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Dump the sisters and date the mother.

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Old 08-06-2009, 05:43 PM
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I wouldn't even know what to tell you. But dating sisters? This sort of freaks me out. My husband told me he knew identical twins who would date the same guy all the time and it worked out well. But I just can't wrap my head around it. Sorry.
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Old 08-06-2009, 06:18 PM
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I wouldn't even know what to tell you. But dating sisters? This sort of freaks me out. My husband told me he knew identical twins who would date the same guy all the time and it worked out well. But I just can't wrap my head around it. Sorry.
Me neither. It seems like incest by proxy.
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Old 08-06-2009, 06:30 PM
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Yeah......
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