Polyamory.com Forum  

Go Back   Polyamory.com Forum > Polyamory > Life stories and blogs

Notices

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #141  
Old 08-26-2010, 02:22 PM
MonoVCPHG's Avatar
MonoVCPHG MonoVCPHG is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: In Redpepper's heart
Posts: 4,742
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by redpepper View Post

The guys are talking and I find that promising... I'm trusting them to come up with something that I can tangibly look forward to. .
You would think with two guys trying to look after one need we'd have this figured out by now. Don't worry Lilo, we'll all figure out a way for you to get that room
__________________

Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes

Poly Events All Over
Reply With Quote
  #142  
Old 08-26-2010, 02:37 PM
TruckerPete TruckerPete is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 999
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG View Post
You would think with two guys trying to look after one need we'd have this figured out by now. Don't worry Lilo, we'll all figure out a way for you to get that room
But, it's two guys trying to communicate!
Reply With Quote
  #143  
Old 08-26-2010, 02:58 PM
MonoVCPHG's Avatar
MonoVCPHG MonoVCPHG is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: In Redpepper's heart
Posts: 4,742
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by TruckerPete View Post
But, it's two guys trying to communicate!
Communication isn't the issue. Both of us want Redpepper to have her own space;that is the real issue and it needs to be dealt with. Redpepper and Polynerdist could deal with this without my involvement but me moving in is an easy fix that may lead to other benefits for all of us. It may also lead to disapointment...that is where my and Polynerdist's hesitation comes from. He has his worries which are valid and I have my worries but both of us are willing to give it a try.
__________________

Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes

Poly Events All Over
Reply With Quote
  #144  
Old 08-27-2010, 06:41 PM
redpepper's Avatar
redpepper redpepper is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 7,634
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Mohegan View Post
Ya know, it's not just something you should be doin for him, finances are an important thing to know.

I pray you, mono and and PN have many, many years ahead of you, but it is important, no matter how much you don't like them, to know where your finances stand and how to keep them there if something happens.
Yes Ma'am. You are so right. I don't know what happened, but I got distracted somewhere along the line (MONO!!!! ) and what he took pride in organizing and doing for our family I began to ignore. Not good, made him feel unappreciated and unloved. My bad, will fix.... on it. promise.

I am not so far behind I don't think. I know basic stuff... just not caught up on some additions in the last year. We shall see tonight! Cause tonights the night... tonights the night we do finances. I know it's the night we do finances because it's wednesday. Okay friday....

flight of the concords? anyone, anyone..... ?

*sigh*

I'm trying to psych myself up...

__________________
Anyone want to be friends on Facebook?
Send me your name via PM
My blog
Reply With Quote
  #145  
Old 08-27-2010, 06:42 PM
Derbylicious's Avatar
Derbylicious Derbylicious is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: May 2009
Location: Victoria BC
Posts: 1,603
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
Yes Ma'am. You are so right. I don't know what happened, but I got distracted somewhere along the line (MONO!!!! ) and what he took pride in organizing and doing for our family I began to ignore. Not good, made him feel unappreciated and unloved. My bad, will fix.... on it. promise.

I am not so far behind I don't think. I know basic stuff... just not caught up on some additions in the last year. We shall see tonight! Cause tonights the night... tonights the night we do finances. I know it's the night we do finances because it's wednesday. Okay friday....

flight of the concords? anyone, anyone..... ?

*sigh*

I'm trying to sych myself up...

Do you have your business socks on?
__________________
Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not ok it's not the end.
Reply With Quote
  #146  
Old 08-27-2010, 06:44 PM
redpepper's Avatar
redpepper redpepper is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 7,634
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Derbylicious View Post
Do you have your business socks on?
why yes, of course I do. *sideways wink and eyebrow raise*
__________________
Anyone want to be friends on Facebook?
Send me your name via PM
My blog
Reply With Quote
  #147  
Old 08-27-2010, 06:48 PM
redpepper's Avatar
redpepper redpepper is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 7,634
Default

So, I have a lot of thoughts about this thread and I don't know how to approach it. I want to go back in my time here and pull out nuggets of stuff that made me think and move forward and that helped me with my stuff, but I have 2,674 posts so far and that is a freakin lot to read through! I wish I had started this long ago. Too late? We shall see, give me a few more sick days such as this one and I would get it done.
__________________
Anyone want to be friends on Facebook?
Send me your name via PM
My blog
Reply With Quote
  #148  
Old 08-27-2010, 06:49 PM
redpepper's Avatar
redpepper redpepper is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Canada
Posts: 7,634
Default

Can I just say....

I'M FUCKING ALONE!!!!! I'M ALONE IN THE HOUSE!!!! DID I MENTION I'M ALONE???!!!! DID I ,,, HUH? TELL ME I'M ALONE... OH! I'M ALONE, I HAVE NO ONE TO ASK... OH TOO BAD... I WILL TELL MYSELF THEN.... I'M ALONE, I HAVE PRIVACY, WHAT SHOULD I DO.... masturbate. heh
__________________
Anyone want to be friends on Facebook?
Send me your name via PM
My blog
Reply With Quote
  #149  
Old 08-27-2010, 06:49 PM
MonoVCPHG's Avatar
MonoVCPHG MonoVCPHG is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: In Redpepper's heart
Posts: 4,742
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
why yes, of course I do. *sideways wink and eyebrow raise*
Just don't trip over your pants!...or make it a sexy dance
__________________

Playing the Game of Life with Monopoly rules.
Monogamy might just be in my genes

Poly Events All Over
Reply With Quote
  #150  
Old 08-27-2010, 07:21 PM
SNeacail's Avatar
SNeacail SNeacail is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: Near Disneyland
Posts: 1,565
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
I'M ALONE, I HAVE PRIVACY, WHAT SHOULD I DO.... masturbate. heh
Well Yeah!!!!
Cup of tea and a racy audiobook is good too.
Reply With Quote
Reply

Tags
bdsm, boundaries, breaking up, casual sex, children, coming out, coming out to family, communication, family, foundations, kids, ldr, ldrs, mono poly, mono poly dating nature, mono/poly, moving in, negotiations, poly-fi, poly-fidelous, redpepper, rules, swinging, third partner, vee

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT. The time now is 06:06 AM.