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Old 08-07-2010, 04:07 AM
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Basically i would like to know something here
don't feel offended as i just want truthful answers and insight

How and/or where could i find a woman who is interested in a polyamorous relationship?

I've dabbled in sites and some of them don't have let's say a checkbox of this sort.

Please give insight and/or answers to help us!
Here is a whole thread detailing various ways. Number 1 choice is okCupid.

http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=2835

good luck in your search
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Old 08-07-2010, 04:24 AM
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Default Advice would be welcome

Here is my all too common situation. I asked my wife to consider reading Tristan Taormino's book, Opening Up. I led with the phrase, "As far as I'm concerned, we don't need to change a thing; I just want us to read about it." She was reluctant. After the book lay untouched on the table for a few days I found myself eventually trying to persuade her, at which point I knew I'd gone off course and now I feel rather foolish about it all. I'm prepared to throw in the towel on this--polyamory--but I still feel as if there may be something in it for us. Any advice would be appreciated.

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Old 08-18-2010, 03:04 PM
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Smile a simple question....

Hello

WHERE could I find/meet "polys" in Europe ?

. searched, I found nothing...

Thanks
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Old 08-18-2010, 05:25 PM
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Hello

WHERE could I find/meet "polys" in Europe ?

. searched, I found nothing...

Thanks
OKC has a number of european poly people.

I also found - by searching for polyamory europe

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=124033632632
http://tribes.tribe.net/polyeurope

Amongst other sites.
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Old 08-18-2010, 05:28 PM
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hu???
What is OKC ????????????

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Old 08-18-2010, 05:29 PM
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hu???
What is OKC ????????????

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www.okcupid.com
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Old 08-18-2010, 05:33 PM
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This

Sorry I figured you had perused this thread. It has been mentioned a number of times. It is a poly friendly dating site. Quite a large poly community.
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Old 08-22-2010, 02:40 PM
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Sorry I figured you had perused this thread. It has been mentioned a number of times. It is a poly friendly dating site. Quite a large poly community.
Your version of "large" and mine are two different things.


With that being said, L and I are trying to develop a dating site that is strictly for poly's. Once we finally launch it, we'll let everyone here know.
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Old 08-24-2010, 01:16 AM
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Your version of "large" and mine are two different things.


With that being said, L and I are trying to develop a dating site that is strictly for poly's. Once we finally launch it, we'll let everyone here know.
It is of course regional. Check the bc listing, there is a lot of availability. Calgary blew my socks off with the number of available poly friendly women. I haven't checked in with Parry Sound ontario, but i betcha they don't have many poly people
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Old 10-09-2010, 05:23 PM
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The best way to find people is to stop looking.

Sounds ass-backwards, I know. But the best love sneaks up on you when you're totally looking in another direction.
This was such a deja vu statement for me. However, I have spoken of it only in terms of monogamous relationships with friends who are trying to find someone to be with, and struggling with sites like eHarmony, AFF, what have you. It is exactly how I found my wife 19 years ago...because I wasn't looking for her.
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