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Old 08-14-2010, 04:45 AM
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I didn't get a wink of sleep last night, because I thought his wife would be flying in yesterday, but she didn't. I have been so stressed the butterflies are beginning to make me nauseous that I vomitted once already. She for sure will be here in just a few short hours, I may or may not be meeting her tonight. He is sure we will hit it off just fine and that I will have both a bf and gf to complete a triangle triad. I just need to meet her and get to know her. I am so freaked, because I don't know what she will think of me and meeting ppl is something that is very hard for me to do!!!
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Old 08-14-2010, 04:53 AM
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Old 08-14-2010, 06:05 AM
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Just breathe.
Best advice ever ...

And advice I will have to take myself soon I think...

Enjoy it and ride the fun of meeting new people. Its a new adventure in left.
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Old 08-14-2010, 07:53 AM
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just think of it like you are meeting a new friend,because thats what it is at the beginning
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Old 08-14-2010, 09:25 PM
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It was just like meeting a new friend she is totally awesome and GORGEOUS!
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Old 08-14-2010, 11:01 PM
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that's so great,glad you guys hit it off!
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Old 08-15-2010, 01:43 AM
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Michelle,

I think your meet-up was yesterday, so I hope it went well!!!! DW and I were just discussing meeting the secondaries (yes, he is dating someone, but I'll let him tell you about that as he wishes). We are eager to, but will be nervous for sure.

If you get a chance to let us know how it went, that would be great!
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Old 08-15-2010, 07:17 AM
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Hey, totally empathise, I find running or swimming really helps me for crazy excess engery (slakes the flight/fight response? who knows, dang nervous system!) anyhow, good luck!

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Old 08-15-2010, 07:34 AM
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i met my guys wife last week at their house..... He had to come out to the car and get me, no way I could have walked in by myself..... I was so nervous, said i felt like i was on a job interview.....but all was ok, she was so lovely.

Just breathe, keep calm and all else fails, have a drink to settle your nerves.
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Old 08-15-2010, 03:16 PM
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It was just like meeting a new friend she is totally awesome and GORGEOUS!
Yay!!! Glad you got through it and enjoyed yourself.

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