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Old 08-04-2010, 05:39 PM
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Redpepper and I are sitting here and we were discussing your last question about compersion. She thought you were asking if monos can have compersion which we both agree is completely possible; me being a case in point. Can a mono survive in a poly situation without compersion and maintain any semblance of health? Extremely unlikely. I don't think this would be possible unless the mono turns off parts of their hearts and minds to avoid a spiral into despair. We all have to be strong and independant enough to take care of ourselves. Look inward....are you sacrificing yourself for the happiness of another or sharing in that experience?
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