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Old 08-01-2009, 06:50 PM
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Haha, yeah i meant her. Kinda groggy right now, just woke up and didnt have a cigarette yet.
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Old 08-02-2009, 06:51 PM
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You are in an unusual position because of your age AND newness at the alternative lifestyle. I think this will work to your advantage. First of all, you are not married, especially not for many years of monogamy and/or raising a family. So it's not so much a turn-off that you want to "add" to "your" relationship the way it is with older, established couples where it will be a big change in "their" marriage. There are not the same things at stake with you and your GF. All you really need to concern yourself with is being respectful toward each other and your soon-to-be girlfriend.

I have one piece of advice. Get in the habit, mentally and verbally, of referring to your girlfriend(s) as "she and I" or "her and me" instead of "us and we". save the "us and we" for the three of you.

I'm glad you seem to have the foresight and maturity to make this work; it may take a little longer than you would like, but I have no doubt that you will appreciate it.
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Old 08-02-2009, 07:31 PM
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Thank you very much for the support, suggestions and kind words. I think my girlfriend and myself are going to enjoy it here. Ill talk to her about getting her to make herself an account here and become active. Be warned, shes 10x the bouncy and hyper aussielover is xD
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Old 08-02-2009, 07:57 PM
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LMAO... omg if only you knew me in person, I'm so quiet and shy!! My Sunshinegrl is way more bouncy and hyper than I am! At least irl. lol That's so funny.
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Old 08-02-2009, 07:59 PM
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Aww, your probably just shy to people you dont know. I bet once you get near your lovers you divetackle one of them to the ground and latch on with a deathgrip xD
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Aww, your probably just shy to people you dont know. I bet once you get near your lovers you divetackle one of them to the ground and latch on with a deathgrip xD
hmmmmmmm ok maybe you DO know me... *looking around a little paranoid*
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Old 08-02-2009, 08:02 PM
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xD No no its ok, im not a stalker, im just really good at learning how people are.
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lol whew... I'm just extra excited right now 'cause I've just got things orginized to go homem finally... I've been missing my family so much and now I see the light at the end of the tunnel.

lol but usually I'm not nearly this hyper
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Old 08-02-2009, 08:28 PM
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Thats great, are you just visiting or are you staying for good?
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Old 08-02-2009, 09:09 PM
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For min a year. I'm going over on a working holiday visa. That will give us some time to figure out what to do after that. Maybe back to school on a student visa... We have to figure something out perminantly.
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