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Old 07-31-2010, 11:19 PM
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Default What are the downsides of being poly?

Coming from a mono perspective I suppose i have had until now an underlying belief that in a mono/poly relationship the mono has to work harder.

I'm starting to see that it's probably just different work. I watch Z and I see that he doesn't have quite the same level of contentment in our relationship that I do. His mind is often off with someone else and he seems to have an insatiable wanting. He says that will go when... or when... but I wonder if some of this is the a downside of being poly?

My question is are you ever completely content with what you have or are you always on the look out for more?

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