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Old 07-16-2010, 01:28 AM
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Default Sex and dating

What constitutes sex for you? Kisses, mutual masturbation, intercourse, anal, oral?

What constitutes fluid bonded? Kissing? mutual masturbation? bareback intercourse? oral?

How important is fluid bonding when it comes to your new partners?

Where, in a relationship do you talk about fluid bonding and how does that affect you in your dating?
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Old 07-16-2010, 01:32 AM
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Default Fluid Bonding

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fluid_bonding

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  • a process in Polymer science
  • a form of Bareback (sex)
  • an agreement between partners in a polyamorous relationship to practice unprotected sexual intercourse. This is usually undertaken once medical advice and STI tests have been taken. The agreement usually includes an agreement to practice protected sex outside of those within the fluid bonded relationship.
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Old 07-16-2010, 01:48 AM
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Passionate kissing is the highest form of sexuality for me.

If it involves erogenous zones and sexual stimulation..it's sex

I don't believe in the concept of mutual masturbation...if you are getting off together...it's sex

I define Fluid bonding as the uninhibited exchange of saliva, vaginal secretions and sperm.

Fluid bonding is paramount to sex for me. Sex is an exchange of energy and communication for me. This is reduced with someone I cannot consume and be inside of without barriers.
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Old 07-16-2010, 02:27 AM
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What constitutes sex for you? Kisses, mutual masturbation, intercourse, anal, oral?
Interesting question. I suppose all of the above. I have gone a 48 hour period in the throws of sexual passion without having any intercourse. That was some of the best sex of my life.

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What constitutes fluid bonded? Kissing? mutual masturbation? bareback intercourse? oral?
Swapping seminal and vaginal fluids

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How important is fluid bonding when it comes to your new partners?
Tough question...for a relationship as in someone I am dating, ideally this will eventually happen especially if I am developing a strong emotional bond. But I do judge this per person. How responsible are they. Testing, willingness to test and how honest they are in general.

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Where, in a relationship do you talk about fluid bonding and how does that affect you in your dating?
The second I start talking about sex. I like to lay this on the table and discuss what people are interested in. If it is condoms only, fine...fluid bonding, then there is some serious discussion to follow.

On that note, I have not fluid bonded with many people, and I am a gy who hates condoms. I find them annoying at the best of times and painful at the worst.
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