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Old 07-06-2010, 10:11 PM
honeysprite honeysprite is offline
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Default My primary has a new partner...

We aren't that new to this but after he was intimate with him for the first time, I found out that they didn't use protection.

To say that I freaked out is the understatement of the year. I went call kinds of angry to hurt to then uberhurt. How could this person that is supposed to think about me first and foremost not consider me? He says that he didn't know that his new lover didn't have a condom on. I refuse to take that as an excuse.

I'm trying to get over this but the violation of trust is overwhelming. Plus, I won't be intimate with him until everyone is tested. Plus, it does put a damper on the mood.

Any suggestions? Thoughts?
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