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Old 07-05-2010, 04:58 PM
Ariakas Ariakas is offline
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Originally Posted by rpcrazy View Post
It's not odd to not want it. However, it also isn't as troublesome as some people seem to think it is. I've had several, and they can both be really fun, and really loving. The same exponential feelings you gain from having multiple lovers, is shared in making love with multiple lovers. It's an amazing feeling, and i'd recommend it to whoever is in the situation to have it like that. When the girls can manage to not to damn insecure about their looks, and the guy manage to not care about "performance", it makes out to be a damn good experience.
Ditto...sexually it is totally different and amazing experience. The energy between three people that like each other is amazingly intense.
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Old 07-06-2010, 09:19 AM
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Originally Posted by Karma View Post
Am I the only poly guy that isn't really that interested in having a threesome involving both SOs? <snip>
Am I odd?
Nah, I think that's a pretty healthy attitude actually.

You're not closed to the possibility, but it'd have to be something all 3 wanted and it doesn't bother you if it never happened.

I completely relate to that, although we had a day out in London all together a bit since (go see Stomp if you are in town) and I ached to cuddle both of my girls, and of course you can't cuddle one and leave the other alone - But they ganged up on me and said no, that's not how it is.

Fair enough I guess, they are just not that close (. . yet . . ).

One thing I will say having read a thread on here is that three in a bed with 2 making out and the third being ignored would be horrible.
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Old 07-06-2010, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Karma View Post
Am I odd?
If by "odd" you mean part of a statistical minority, sure. If by "odd" you mean a statistical outlier that nobody else can identify with, then no.

The only thought I've ever given to the matter has been "It'd be nice to try it." I've never thought to suggest it and figured if it were ever going to happen, one of the ladies would have to suggest it.
When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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