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Old 06-21-2010, 09:23 PM
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Old 06-22-2010, 12:35 AM
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Thanks for catching us up. I agree, good relationships of the soul kind, really do just show up. If you are open, have taken what you have learned and leave the rest to fate then perhaps love will find you again. Things have a strange way of working.

Just to let you know, the kind of poly you are waiting for does exsist and is worth waiting for. If it isn't what works for you then you are wise to sit out and see what the future holds.
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Old 04-05-2014, 05:06 AM
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This thread makes me sad. I read the OP and thought, OMG, this is completely how I feel! Slightly different degrees of what happened, but same feelings, from "I love x so much and I love my spouse too" to "I can see this working for us, if only I had said something from the very beginning..." to "we stopped communication and it's so painful".

I was rooting for good news and happy endings the whole tume. I was sad to read the final "I won't it."

I am persoanlly hoping for a different ending...or an ending that could be different in the future should the same feelings be returned again. I'm fearful it will never work, but I have to try or it will never have a chance. I don't have anything left to lose.

Me: 39, female, identified as both bi and poly Spring 2014, married with younger kids, actively dating
J: 40, male, also actively dating
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