What do you think?
My hubby and I have had a relationship with another couple for over a year. yes, sex is involved... mostly swap but some all together. I just can figure out what we are... other like us?.. we all have no interest in involving others. We clearly all love each other. They have children which will be out of the house in a few years, and yes.. we have talked of getting a 'duplex'. We do, and I think will always have the primary/secondary spouses... I just don't know where we fit in the poly world. Any input?