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Old 05-25-2010, 10:02 PM
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so much has been told to me within the course of a day. D and I are taking a break. he's in the process of losing his wife. I cannot in good conscience ask him to continue with me. I don't want to put added strain on him. We're still friends. he knows that I'm here if he needs me. I want to make it all better for him. I want to glue the pieces back together. I feel so helpless in the face of his fear and pain.
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Old 05-26-2010, 01:47 PM
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I'm sorry that he's going through that, but it might be something for you to look at. Why is she leaving? It seems that he may have a bit too much going on right now. I wish you the best.
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Old 05-27-2010, 02:49 AM
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he hasn't said why and I'm trying not to push. he did say that things she was doing were affecting him and that she didn't care about his feelings. he knows that I'm here when he's ready to talk
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*HUG* I'm sorry and I hope things start to look up for you. Just remember to keep your chin up and everything happens for a reason.
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Old 05-29-2010, 01:39 AM
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they are going to spend the weekend talking. the waiting is going to drive me mad
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