You say that you don't "think" that she's on the same page. What has she told you? Is she ok with expressing her feelings about this to you?
Congrats on being able to finally spit it out. I know how tough that can be at times, and I also know how AMAZING it feels when you can really really be honest with your spouse. It's to the point where people tell us that we tell each other TOO much, which of course is just silly to us. I'm not sure there's such a thing as too much communication in a relationship.
Live life to the fullest 'cause you never know if you're gonna wake up tomorrow!