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Old 05-14-2010, 08:23 PM
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I'm so looking forward to sitting on the deck in the evening and just enjoying the camaraderie!
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Old 05-14-2010, 11:13 PM
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It's a nice deck.
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Old 05-15-2010, 12:22 AM
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It's a nice deck.
Our deck is bigger than your deck. Your deck ain't bad, but I've never sat on your deck.
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Old 05-15-2010, 01:07 AM
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If you got money you don't need a big deck...

http://www.break.com/index/bigdeck22.html
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Old 05-15-2010, 01:27 AM
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A small deck is good but only if you trim the bushes around it. Makes it look bigger.
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Old 05-15-2010, 04:43 AM
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A small deck is good but only if you trim the bushes around it. Makes it look bigger.
Ummmm..not that we need too...but everyone's doing it now
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Old 05-15-2010, 05:30 AM
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Mono is going away for 9 days tomorrow for work. He is in the military, being away is a common occurrence, but the first time he has had to go in the time we have known each other.

He has written me several notes to be opened at various times while he is away. For a year now he has left me love notes in the park by the ocean that I run to. He leaves them in a little crevice in a stone monument at the park. We have had to change the spot a few times as we are found out eventually and notes go missing. One time someone wrote us back to say how lovely they were.

He wont be here to write them so has left me instructions to open a different note on a different day marked on the outside of the small hand made envelope. They are precious little things and I love them as is. I don't know if I will open them when he says as they are like presents. I was never good at opening presents. I liked the idea of the mystery in side.

Oh I will miss his touch, his smell, his closeness in my life.

I know Derby, I hear you saying, "whateverrrr" I don't care, I am not used to this kind of lifestyle. Fortunately I won't have to be in the same way you are. I really don't know how you do it... I'm a wuss.. so there
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I know Derby, I hear you saying, "whateverrrr" I don't care, I am not used to this kind of lifestyle. Fortunately I won't have to be in the same way you are. I really don't know how you do it... I'm a wuss.. so there
I'm not thinking that at all. I know how hard it is to be apart from those that we love. Just because it's not as long as the trips that DH takes doesn't mean that it's not going to be hard. DH and I were together for 10 years before he left for the first time. We had been through a lot together already. Plus we started out in a long distance relationship. I don't doubt for a second that this trip is going to be hard on you, when you're used to being physically with someone every day it's going to be a shock to the system to be apart. Keep youself busy and the time will go quickly.

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Old 05-16-2010, 05:34 AM
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Mono is going away for 9 days tomorrow for work. He is in the military, being away is a common occurrence, but the first time he has had to go in the time we have known each other.

He has written me several notes to be opened at various times while he is away. .

I got quite choked up when you found them on the table....I love you
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Old 05-16-2010, 06:35 AM
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MON!

You really should NOT say those things!!!

Telling her you got choked up-makes my heart thump!!!



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