Originally Posted by capricorny
You have to adapt to each other in order to just not simply grow apart, and that adaptation is not only up to you. Making it clear that some things are going to change over time now, no matter, but that he can have a huge influence on how.
Thanks so much for sharing this Capricorny...this thought has really helped me wrap my head around everything. We are fluid as humans in who we are as we grow older, as our relationship is fluid, and we both influence choices the other makes. There are no ultimatums here....and I want this to be a transition that we can mold together.