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Old 05-11-2010, 01:53 AM
Dragonmom Dragonmom is offline
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Default Hi from no where ontario

um hi, i have really no idea how to introduce myself.

i'm a single mom of 4 kids, i'm divorced. im geeky. i have had a horrid track record with relationships. i seem to be a grass is greener on the other side of the fence kinda girl. now after reading some/alot of posts on here and after finding this site http://www.xeromag.com/fvpoly.html, i seem to know why. So now i'm stuck with figuring out what do i do from here? My last relationship with a younger man ended 2 months ago now. I can't seem to find the provider i need and the fun/exciting person i need in the same man. Is it horrid to want to have 2 men?

*edited to add* I had the talk about this today with someone very close to me that i could have a relationship with. PHEW, what a load off, OMG we both feel the same way when it comes to mono/poly relationships. i feel so much better about myself and the feelings i have been dealing with. I'm so glad i found this site.

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Old 05-12-2010, 12:47 AM
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Welcome aboard.
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Old 05-12-2010, 02:20 AM
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woohoo a response. I was worried i was being ignored before i even started.

I put no where ontario cause really i live in the middle of no where wow does this make me seem needy?
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Old 05-12-2010, 03:27 AM
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Ontario cali? Or ontario canada.

I will assume canada, middle of nowhere...like Mactier? Or Ayer?...there are lots of "no wheres" in ontario

Welcome to the forums btw ... ex ontarion here
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Old 05-12-2010, 04:12 AM
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Ontario Canada, I often forget there is more than one. I live closer to Winnipeg Than i do to Toronto and i'm still in Ontario. I'm not so happy being this far north and i hope to be back in the Toronto area soon.
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Old 05-12-2010, 04:17 AM
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ahh I understand, I have the misfortune of dating a girl from nipigon ...(I was 14...haha, my first and only LD relationship)

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Old 05-12-2010, 04:35 AM
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Thanks for the welcome.

I have heard of nipigon, but i really have no idea where anything is around here. i spent 8 years living in london, ont, then on to toronto and ended up way the hell out here last summer. remind me to not move for men :P I am looking for places in toronto for when i do finally move back there this summer.
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Old 05-13-2010, 12:49 AM
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ended up way the hell out here last summer. remind me to not move for men :P
OMG....welcome.....I would just die if I had moved for a man and ended up in the middle of nowhere!!! Hope you get out soon !!
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Old 05-13-2010, 04:22 AM
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OMG....welcome.....I would just die if I had moved for a man and ended up in the middle of nowhere!!! Hope you get out soon !!
he wanted to move from the city to the country so we packed everything up last july and moved a 28 hour train ride from Toronto. It was great when we first moved here. The kids made friends and i bought a horse and started making some friends of my own. in febuary everything fell apart and our relationship ended. At the end or march i kicked him out and i'm waiting to move into my own apartment and going to start all over again. We bought a little house together and i'm giving it to him and moving into my own apartment. I'm moving back to Toronto as soon as my children are done of school for the year.
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Old 05-13-2010, 03:39 PM
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Yeah, but there's "the country" and there's middle-of-freakin-nowhere.

And nobody does THAT better than Oh Canada!

Come down south where it's warmer!
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