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Old 05-08-2010, 04:55 AM
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Wow. The amount of love and respect in this thread between all of you is amazing and wonderful. It is the type of thing I can only hope will be in my life one day. Rolypoly I think you have entered into something lovely and special and I hope all the best for you and the course of your relationship. I love reading the threads on here because they usually asuage my own fears and enforce the positives of poly for me. Threads like these are things that make me smile and feel warm
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Old 05-08-2010, 07:05 AM
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We are *always* in the dance.

with love, Polynerdist
You guys are meant to be together more than any couple I have seen...this makes me a little weepy....errr, I mean..I got something in my eye
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Old 05-08-2010, 02:59 PM
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OK....with all the new things going on and everyone having someone in thier life I am officially anouncing my poly relationship for the first time on here. I have been holding back because I have sworn up and down that a person can be wired mono....well I have a confession. There is two other loves in my life...one smells like leather and rubber and the other is the hairiest pussy I have ever kissed....I am in love with my motorbike and Redpepper's cat...there you have it folks....I'm a fraud
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Now...........some people knew that all the time - but kept your secret for you.

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Old 05-08-2010, 03:51 PM
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I've been thinking about how to word this so bear with me...Roly, I think I understand some of what your concerns are here. My thought is that part of what makes Nerdist who he is is his relationship with others in his life and with his family. It's not something that can be separated out. If part of what you see as attractive is the entire dynamic of his family that's ok...that's part of him. It's like we're told when we're young to see how a man treats his mother to get an idea of how he will treat you. Isn't it even better to see how he treats his wife and child?

I might be a little biased here but how could anyone not be attracted to how the dynamic between Mono, Nerdist and Redpepper is. There is so much love and respect there that it just seems to spill over into everyone they touch. I always feel honoured to be around them.

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There is so much love and respect there that it just seems to spill over into everyone they touch. I always feel honoured to be around them.

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Thanks for this Derby...little speechless at this one
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Thanks for this Derby...little speechless at this one
Every once in a while I stop being a goof for a few minutes
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Old 05-08-2010, 05:18 PM
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Every once in a while I stop being a goof for a few minutes
I'm goof 100% of the time..but it's not a competition..unless you want it to be
I can out goof the best of them..bring it Derby!
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Old 05-08-2010, 05:21 PM
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...little speechless at this one
Yes, speechless. I feel like I need to say something, but really, I am just happy. I want to feed the love between everyone as much as I feel like I've been fed, if that makes any sense.

Derby, no kidding! And thank you, that assuaged my fears. It's a lot to come to terms with.
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Roly, have you read the thread I started on relationships? It was about being a good host and guest in peoples lives. One of our many analagies.
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Old 05-08-2010, 07:46 PM
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I'm goof 100% of the time..but it's not a competition..unless you want it to be
I can out goof the best of them..bring it Derby!
Who are you kidding Mono, everything's a race to you, no? Hmm... who can show compersion to RP & Nerdist the quickest? tee hee
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