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Old 05-08-2010, 12:09 AM
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OPP = One Penis Policy
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Old 05-08-2010, 12:10 AM
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I was lazy so I just merged the threads. It looks like the "from another site" thread was mostly about kink/BDsm anyway.
OMG I thought I was going nuts...I read this thread earlier and then I came back and I couldn't figure out how I had missed so many posts!
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Old 05-08-2010, 12:12 AM
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OPP = One Penis Policy
Um...what does that mean exactly? Does that mean that you believe there should only be one penis involved in a relationship? Or one in an encounter? I'm sorry, maybe I should put "hopelessly vanilla" in my signature.
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Old 05-08-2010, 12:18 AM
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It was a song-in the song it meant "Other People's Property"
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Old 05-08-2010, 12:23 AM
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Um...what does that mean exactly? Does that mean that you believe there should only be one penis involved in a relationship? Or one in an encounter? I'm sorry, maybe I should put "hopelessly vanilla" in my signature.
Yes, it means those things.

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It was a song-in the song it meant "Other People's Property"
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Old 05-08-2010, 01:22 AM
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Thank you! I also managed to stumble across another thread where this was used.

PS--mind if I quote you in my signature? I think "Let's not confuse the neophyte" pretty much describes how I feel most of the time.
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Old 05-08-2010, 01:38 AM
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Sorry-I wasn't even trying to confuse-I saw the question post-tried to answer it, my computer froze-so by the time it posted you two had a whole conversation and I missed it till JUST NOW!!!!

Ah well-yes you can feel like you are going crazy when Ygirl starts moving threads around. But it's fun too-gotta keep going back to find them!
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Old 05-08-2010, 03:22 PM
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I read the OP start to that thread like a 'vent'.

Most people vent out their insecurities and frustrations. To engage in her faulty logic, and make it a 'debate' contributes to those insecurites.

She wants to find fault with other peoples contributions, to convince herself, that her fears and anger are justified.

Enough people post, and then that kind of person can find fault in anything. Usually people that feel that obviously threatened, are harbouring and hating themselves for secret desires,....
I hope, that her post is actually her starting to come to terms with other aspects of the lifestyle, and she is reaching out. I`d hope for the positive.

..thats my 2 cents anyhow.


While I engage in a D/s poly lifestyle, I try to keep my head mostly out of "The Community"...just for this reason,...So many people trying to fit everyone else, in nice, little, cookie-cutter packages, so they don`t have to feel threatened by anothers differences.

The twist is ; when you do find great minded people,..it is soooooo fantastic.
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Old 05-08-2010, 03:29 PM
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Super, do you mean the one Pittdruid referenced?
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Old 05-08-2010, 03:42 PM
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Yes, sorry.
I apparently got lost reading the 2 threads, and what-aspect-went-where, once they got combined.

I am definitetly referring to the thread Pitt started regarding the cross-post from another site.

Cheers for catching that Ariakas ! Thanks.
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