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Old 05-06-2010, 04:33 PM
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Redpepper is completely right about the intensity of starting and committing to a relationship with Redpepper. Admittedly the source of that intensity was almost solely derived from the mono/poly aspect of our relationship.

There's a lot of questions you'll probably have that I didn't have to ask myself. The wonderful thing is no matter what questions you have, you will be able to draw upon at least three people who genuinely care about you for support. Similar to the development of Redpepper and Derbylicious's relationship, we all knew each other already and had compatable energies (energy is extremely important in my opinion).

Things can develop much smoother than is often seen, especially when there is an existing friendship already. This removes the "unknown" aspect and often awkwardness of having someone join your extended relationships. Of course this does not always happen but this is the case for you...use it to your advantage..the people involved already care for you
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:29 AM
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Welcome back dear! Been wondering when you would reappear on here.
Thank you LR! Nice to see still around!
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:30 AM
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Ours, ours, ours!!!....errrr wait now....that's not right Ok..we'll share her
Now, now, poly is for sharing.
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:31 AM
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Ditto, but that wasn't were I could access her!!

It's no fair if she isn't here so I can share too!!!

(do you feel wanted roly?)
I feel looooooved. And lucky and blushing....
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:34 AM
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hello fellow rp

So glad to see you writing on here again. I feel very blessed to have become friends with you on here first, heard about your life on here first and now can experience you in real life! Not only that but the possibilities seem very positive. all good, all smiles....

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(it is strange to talk about it on here and then live what you talk about/talk about what you live... I want to assure everyone that roly is just as assume in real life! )
Thanks RP! Honestly, I really think the credit goes to all of you for being so welcoming to me! I feel like I've shared a lot of scary stuff and no one's been scared away. Wow.

What is "assume" in real life?
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Old 05-07-2010, 12:40 AM
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Admittedly the source of that intensity was almost solely derived from the mono/poly aspect of our relationship.

There's a lot of questions you'll probably have that I didn't have to ask myself. The wonderful thing is no matter what questions you have, you will be able to draw upon at least three people who genuinely care about you for support. Similar to the development of Redpepper and Derbylicious's relationship, we all knew each other already and had compatable energies (energy is extremely important in my opinion).

Things can develop much smoother than is often seen, especially when there is an existing friendship already. This removes the "unknown" aspect and often awkwardness of having someone join your extended relationships. Of course this does not always happen but this is the case for you...use it to your advantage..the people involved already care for you
Hi Mono,

I bet it was intense. And I mean it when I say I have gained a whole new level of admiration and respect for what you have built. Wow.

Yes, there are questions I won't need to search in myself because I know I'm poly, so thankfully that's not a factor in all this. And I can't begin to say how touched I am that you three, or rather four are reaching out and being so supportive. I'm blown away by the level of maturity, compassion, inclusion, communication and love you all have. I care for all of you just as much.

Yes, I'd say that right now I'm focusing on making sure there's a solid friendship. I just got an email from my ex asking for us to be friends and I felt so good about that. Regardless of what happens, I feel connected to the poly community over there (my ex being the perfect example) and it's extremely important to preserve that over the coming months.

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awesome, awesome, awesome.... stupid predictive phone technology
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awesome, awesome, awesome.... Stupid predictive phone technology
haha!!!
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Hahahahaha!!!

Good job Mon, good job!
I know it must have been REALLY hard to even type that!

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Old 05-07-2010, 06:33 AM
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Hahahahaha!!!

Good job Mon, good job!
I know it must have been REALLY hard to even type that!

It went against everything I am
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