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Old 05-05-2010, 01:10 AM
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Default Which way to turn?

After our disaster of a date Saturday things have only gotten worse. Our dates ex took things pretty bad. He and my husband used to be friends. I got an e-mail from him this morning telling me all the numorous women my husband has supposedly slept with. My husband is with her tonight, they are having a much needed talk. And her ex added to the e-mail that they are together. Like I didn't know.

My husband has a history of cheating. But it's history. We've made it a long way. And honestly, cheating I can forgive. Lieing I can't.

Which brings me to my confusion. Do I believe the hurt ex who is looking for anyway he can to hurt my husband, including threatening him. Do I let our past influence my trust for my husband? Or do I step into the future believing him. Believing that her ex is only looking for a way to hurt him.

Why is honesty so hard?
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cheating, compulsive lying, deception, forgiveness

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