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Old 04-26-2010, 03:42 AM
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Default New Lifestyle Emotions (NLE)

If I’m dreaming, don’t pinch me; I don’t want to wake up!

I have times when I think that at any moment, one of my lovers will say “This is ridiculous, I refuse to participate in this anymore” and he would pull out- as when you remove a card from a house of cards and the whole thing (my current life that’s I’m enjoying so much) would fall apart. Does anyone have thoughts like that?

It’s crazy because everyone is perfectly happy with how things are going. It seems that I am poly by nature and have been emotionally setting things up for 10 years without realizing it. Is there a such thing as NLE which would be New Lifestyle Emotions? Now that I have “come out” as poly and am living the lifestyle, I’m on a type of high, but my relationships are old, so it’s not the NRE that I’m feeling.

Just wondering!!
The key to life is in being fully engaged and peacefully detached simultaneously and authentically in each moment.

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