Originally Posted by vandalin
Did he say anything or just look at you funny? You said in your first post that he straight out said that they lived a poly lifestyle, have they not been living it long because I can't believe that they hadn't talked about rules at some point, especially when dating someone new.
*puts on Devil's advocate horns* You might want to make sure that his wife DOES know about you. There are a lot of people who cheat using the guise of poly and a spouse/SO who doesn't want to meet the partners "others".
That's a very good point.
And you know, you may really like her. It's amazing what women have to offer... more than sex (though that's good) but the deeper emotional bond and support.