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Old 06-12-2014, 11:42 PM
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You need to be more like a guy is, in these cases. Enjoy the eye candy for what is is, but don't get too attached, Men wouldn't.
That's a pretty broad paintbrush.
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Old 06-13-2014, 06:55 PM
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Hey, I like eye candy, but I'm still a loyal partner. Just sayin'
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Thank you guys. I have so much to learn. Currently going through broken heart because I dumped the guy but man, that's done a number on me. For the record, I am open to love, of course; it's just that I had the worst possible luck here. And like I said, a rookie mistake, I'm sure. Thanks for the link on NRE, very interesting and illuminates some things for me.
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Old 06-30-2014, 06:45 PM
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Good to hear from you; sounds like you are going through some rough times, but you will be okay in the end.

Keep us posted.
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Old 06-30-2014, 08:03 PM
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Thank you guys. I have so much to learn. Currently going through broken heart because I dumped the guy but man, that's done a number on me. For the record, I am open to love, of course; it's just that I had the worst possible luck here. And like I said, a rookie mistake, I'm sure. Thanks for the link on NRE, very interesting and illuminates some things for me.
I'm happy to have helped with the link. Hang in there. Trust me - 5 years from now you'll think of him as "that early poly guy" It will be ok.
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