Polyamory.com Forum  

Go Back   Polyamory.com Forum > Polyamory > Introductions


Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 01-05-2009, 06:59 PM
JessicaSideways JessicaSideways is offline
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Denver, CO
Posts: 5
Smile Shouting from the Rockies!


First off, if you didn't pick up from the subject line, I am a male-to-female (MTF) transsexual. I am also pre-op. Remember that google is your friend and anything that you want to know, can pretty much be looked up online. One of my favourite resources to lead people to is a site known as TS Roadmap, a site that has been very useful for many male-to-female transsexuals. But enough of that, let's get on to the ad, shall we? ^+^

I am currently living and studying in Denver at the Community College of Denver. I currently work at the Auraria Campus Bookstore during their rush, during which, I will be searching for more permanent employment either with the campus or with the school. I am looking to get my Bachelor's degree in Theatre (I know, quite superfluous, right?) but I am looking to get my Masters degree in Library and Information Science from University of Denver.

Before I started transitioning, I was a gothic depressed person, pretending to be a boy (we all know how THAT turned out *rolls eyes*). I wore more face makeup than I do now (if I did, I would probably apply too much face powder and wind up looking goth again) and I used to wear a heavy black leather trenchcoat and black fedora hat - even in the middle of summer in Texas. But hey, it was the style I wanted to rock and the style that conveyed how I felt at the time. I now give off a more happy attitude as my body evolves into the right sex, with surgery later on to top it all off. And everything I wear just echos that which I have been saying. ^_^

I used to be a Christian, now I am an atheist - well technically, I am an agnostic atheist buddhist transcendentalist. Happy? I believe in living life, lifing live, loving well and being me. My outlook on life, the cosmos and yes, even sexuality has been evolving ever since I have started to be more honest to myself and admit the honest truth that I am transsexual. I thought on going stealth, but that's not for me. Now that I actually give a damn about life, I am an activist bohemian grrl and I want to help change the world.

I am totally random. I love to dance around, many times without music. I love ice cream shakes, even in the middle of winter. I love twirling around in the snow and I love to sit down under a tree and read a good book. I love to swim, to wander, to travel, to shop, to eat out and just to have fun.

I don't like referencing my transition so much, but I would like to add that I have been full-time since April or May 2008. I have been on hormones for a little more than a year (I know the exact date, but seeing as it is a hint for many of my password reminders on the net, not willing to share exactly when I started. ^^).

I am a bottom, femme, submissive (but not subservient) womon. But I don't shop at just any store, I shop at Thrift stores, consignment stores, eBay and if they don't have what I want (which is a rarity to be sure), then I go to Ross. I look nice but I want to be more conscious on the impact of what I do and how it effects the world around me. I do all of my grocery shopping at Whole Foods and that usually means hauling it on the light rail and onto another bus just to get it home. ^_^

I am looking primarily looking for a female couple, but I am open to pretty much anything. If you are a single female, trannyboi, transwomon, androgyne or genderqueer - super extra bonus points! ^_^ If you would like to know more about me, please respond and I would be happy to answer any questions you have!

Jessica Sideways
Reply With Quote
Old 01-07-2009, 10:59 PM
Olivier's Avatar
Olivier Olivier is offline
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Belgium
Posts: 150

Welcome Jessica, it's good to have you here and to hear such a self liberated person!
Reply With Quote
Old 01-09-2009, 04:40 PM
nethergirl's Avatar
nethergirl nethergirl is offline
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: NYC
Posts: 32

Hey Jessica,
nice to see you on the forum.. I have another friend that is mtf transitioning right now as well so familiar with the process etc. I am a bisexual female who is truly 50/50 on men and women and have also had a relationship with a man that crossdresses and have had a relationship with both of his 'personalities'. i know that is nothing like mtf transexual i guess i'm just trying to say i am sexually fluid, lol
Reply With Quote
Old 03-09-2009, 05:53 AM
riciecup riciecup is offline
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: illinois
Posts: 10
Default you go girl

You sound great. I am glad that you have the self confidence to be who you are. I have had many friends that were transgendered and all of them have a better sense of themselves than any of the so called straights that I have met.
Reply With Quote
Old 03-13-2009, 04:41 PM
avena333's Avatar
avena333 avena333 is offline
Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 9

Hearing you talk makes me smile. I have a friend who is mtf, and she also gives me that sense of gleeful absurdity that I read in your post. I love it! I'm so glad that you are reveling in who you are.
Reply With Quote
Old 03-16-2009, 05:25 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Kansas City Metro
Posts: 2,187

Welcome to the boards!

Wow, lady...what an exuberant way to announce yourself! I hope to hear you involved in lots of discussions.
Reply With Quote

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump

All times are GMT. The time now is 10:14 PM.