Originally Posted by Natja
Marriage is inherently hierarchal, there is no way to prevent this, just value what time you have left until the point she leaves to find someone else.
Marriage is what you make of it. For some people, it's nothing but an excuse to stay in the country. For some, it's tax benefits and health insurance. For others, it's the be-all-end-all of human relationships.
Hierarchy, meaning ranking one person above another in terms of status or authority, is not inherent in marriage. It may be a feature of many people's marriages, but it's not a universal.
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