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Old 02-20-2014, 07:08 PM
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I agree with GalaGirl. Use this time to invest in some serious marriage counseling. There is a serious passive aggressive tone to her email. The all or nothing statement sets off all sorts of alarm bells for me. Likely, she will make sure you "pay" for her decision to call it off with R for a long time to come, in one way or another. Sounds like she is staying out of obligation and not because she really wants to be there. Spend the next 3-6 months in counseling before addressing the poly subject again. Her statements about never bringing the subject up again makes believe that if thing come up that she thinks you won't like or won't agree with her, she will just find better ways to hide it in the future.
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