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Old 02-12-2014, 03:56 AM
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Concentrate on what the guy is giving you and your guy. Don't worry about what he is giving others.
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Old 02-12-2014, 04:08 AM
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yes i get what your saying
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Old 02-12-2014, 05:28 AM
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I met my boyfriend through a friend and he coincidently works for the same agency I do.

I met my husband though myspace.

He met his gf through meetme.

She met her bf through me (we are classmates)

I personally prefer single people too. Im not interested in dating someone who lives with another partner.
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Old 02-13-2014, 01:40 AM
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I know one day My partner and I will Find that one person that makes us happy somone we can spend the rest of our lives with
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Old 02-13-2014, 03:54 AM
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Sometimes they just show up when you aren't even looking...or don't know that you're looking...

I met MrS at a friend's party - wasn't even looking for a boyfriend, just wanted to get in his pants...that was 22 years ago.

VV was MrS's friend from college.

MsJ married MrS's/my friend from HS.

I met Dude in his grandmother's basement because I was interested in adopting his snake. MrS had met him in a casino...

Dude met Lotus on OKC...
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Lotus: poly bi female, "it's complicated" relationships with Dude/JaneQ/MrS
TT: poly bi male, married to Lotus, FB with JaneQ
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Old 02-13-2014, 04:12 AM
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were looking for someone single because we only want to have one extra person in our relationship someone we can love and who will love the both of us back to many people make it complicated I would rather try one person who is involved in only us but i feel like this type of man doesn't exist
The language your using concerns me, because it seems indicative that you have all kinds of "couple privilege" going on, as well as a lot of preconceived notions about what will be expected of your "third," and that is likely to end really badly, primarily for your Pegasus.

I've been the third to a couple who thinks like this, as though I was an accessory to their existing relationship. I've known several others who have, as well. It's unfair and generally dehumanizing to the newcomer, not to mention pretty unsuccessful all around.

I've never met someone who wants to be an "extra person" in someone's existing relationship for more than casual sex. Would you? so if you're looking for someone to love, I'd definitely suggest you do a site search here on Triads and "unicorns," and do some heavy reading, then a lot of talking, before trying to meet another person to love together.

This is one of my favorites, which I think illustrates some of what I am saying better than I can articulate it: http://www.morethantwo.com/polymistakes.html
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Old 02-15-2014, 02:31 AM
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thanks for the advice
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Old 03-21-2014, 07:15 AM
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My partner and I are looking for a man to have a relationship with long term but we cant seem to find the right site or place to meet single guys what are the best places to meet the perfect guy I have been on several Dating sites. it seems that im getting several visits on but no hits whats the best site to join or the best place to meet single guys interested in a Triad couple
Hey, to your inquiry, I would recommend checking out the following site:
www.beyondtwo.com


I am relatively new to poly, but I have been researching & comparing poly sites; at moment, I am most impressed with this one. While it does not have the same number of people as okc, the people seem to be more genuine & interested in long term, serious relationships. Plus, you have a bit more freedom from the set-up to search for potential partners.

Best of Luck!

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