Originally Posted by london
The idea that people are either in closed relationships or having booty calls is sex negative. It says booty calls are wrong and sex without love is inherently inferior, as well as hinting that sex itself is wrong unless cleansed by traditional commitment.
Well, that's not how I feel so your whole theory about a booty call being used in the context I used it in is a sex negative, that theory is not only persumptious but completely idiotic. Anyways, sorry if you're offended but I don't know what else to say. Apprently your idea of what Love and a Booty Calls are, are two different things than what I think. Let me explain please:
Love. A feeling, a vibration, what I feel when I touch people, anyone. I massage someone I use love. I talk to someone I use love. I think of someone, I use love. I cannot have sex without love. I cannot just nail some whore. I don't need to go out and get my release. My release comes from watching how happy my GF is after I cook her dinner and tell her how beautiful she is. Love comes from helping someone with a computer problem whether online or in my little home office. We are doing it and we are doing it right. I wasn't judging anyone. A booty call is when you have sex. Typically assocaited with a specific person who is meant to have sex with for just sex. I say booty call for many reasons, although that makes no difference for this discussion.
Sounds like you people are way more focused on sex than I am. I just want to meet new freinds and have a good time but you guys don't want me to do that. you just want to start problems with me because you don't like my ideas. That's not okay. Leave me alone. if you don't have something nice to say, don't say it. I just disagreed, and apparently you can't do that in forums anymore. I need the feeling of love to have sex, every single person feels the vibrations of love when they have an orgasm. You have to. That's what it is. Every spasm releasing the same chemicals that release when (just a lot more) when you see that special soeone. It's just a difference in opinion of feeling and what love is which has been argued for ages and will always be until people wake up on this earth. I'm not here to debate that or anything. I am here to meet new people, this has been the most intereting day I have had in months.