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Old 01-22-2014, 12:29 AM
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I'm pretty good at keeping my freak outs off the internet. So point taken there.

As for the baby stuff, that makes us all feel crazy and out of control. One day you will sleep again and then it all gets easier to cope with (note I didn't say easier, kids continually change and provide brand new and interesting challenges).

I'm on the mainland last week of February for work and I'd love to see you guys and meet the new little one. I miss you guys too!
If you can make it out to Langley the Family and I would love to see ya. We could try to arrange a visit to the city, but thats more difficult with newborn etc.

Plus thats when the other newborn should be due.

I am just looking forward to when I become more useful then a diaper changing wifey feed machine. Right now all I can do is make sure she is fed, sleeping and feeding the baby... so feeling kinda useless. haha
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Old 01-22-2014, 12:31 AM
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If you can make it out to Langley the Family and I would love to see ya. We could try to arrange a visit to the city, but thats more difficult with newborn etc.

Plus thats when the other newborn should be due.

I am just looking forward to when I become more useful then a diaper changing wifey feed machine. Right now all I can do is make sure she is fed, sleeping and feeding the baby... so feeling kinda useless. haha
Right now that's more help to her than you can possibly imagine! I will have my car with me so driving to Langley is something I can do (given directions).
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Old 01-22-2014, 12:33 AM
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Right now that's more help to her than you can possibly imagine! I will have my car with me so driving to Langley is something I can do (given directions).
Excellent. We can work out the details but we would love to have you over for dinner?..

II or kids joining you? Or is this a derby thing? (sorry to sidetrack your blog haha)
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Old 01-22-2014, 12:34 AM
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Excellent. We can work out the details but we would love to have you over for dinner?..

II or kids joining you? Or is this a derby thing? (sorry to sidetrack your blog haha)
It's a work thing, just me.
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Old 01-22-2014, 12:40 AM
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It's a work thing, just me.
Cool, I am looking forward to it.. .. and then you get to meet the very cute J hahaha
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Old 01-22-2014, 12:40 AM
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Excellent. I love baby snuggles!
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Old 01-22-2014, 05:42 AM
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In order to do that, we would have to know when you are freaking out.
Yes this-but I'm reading here-cause I did realize that for you to pm me was a good sign that you really needed some back up from friends. LOL!

Anyway-I know I'm terribly far away and not particularly awesome at sending messages on any kind of regular basis.
But I certainly don't mind listening (or reading as the case may be) and offering a long-distance hug too.

Been thinking about you all week and wondering how you were faring with the new set of circumstances.

I've been slammed with school (thank God I am NOT dealign with a brand new baby-but Ari-I'm so happy for you!).
But I think I'm finally getting a routine together. So I should be able to resume more regular attentiveness to the internet.
If you still have my number-that's always a venue to send me vent-texts too.

HUGS!
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Old 01-22-2014, 05:48 AM
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Thanks LR It's good to hear from you.
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Old 02-09-2014, 05:40 AM
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Clarity reached. Now comes the time to communicate it appropriately. All of a sudden everything makes sense again and it will all be OK. Getting to the bottom of things sure is a lot of work.
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