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Old 01-14-2014, 04:44 AM
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She is giving mixed signals - no doubt. But that does not necessarily mean that she wants out of her current relationship or would be on board for poly.

Her behavior is immature. Maybe she likes pushing her own boundaries; maybe she is trying to make her bf jealous; maybe she likes being a tease. It may not be any of those things, but I state these three off the top of my head to show that there can be many hypotheses for her behavior.

All of that said, regardless of how it comes down, if she breaks up with her boyfriend and falls straight into your arms, regardless of the actual reason for the break up - including any that have nothing to do with you and your wife - bf will very likely blame you. People don't like to look at their ow errors and therefore find it remarkably easy to blame someone else.
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Old 01-14-2014, 11:38 AM
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Danger Will Robinson!!!

She is hacked off with him and flirting with you because she knows you like her...it is typical attention seeking behaviour, in effect, she is using you to make herself feel valued. Once that need is filled she will have no use for you at all.

Is that the kind of relationship you want?
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