True. Very true.
We're not totally out of the woods yet, as we are both calibrated differently as to how much texting time is ok. I'm just going to have to give a little and trust, but also communicate.
Part of it may be that this is the first guy that has threatened me in our relationship. I know I should just value the time we have for what it is and be happy for her that she has someone new that she's excited about. She sleeps over at my house for weeks on end. We cuddle and kiss and such. Shes WITH ME, so I should suck all this up a bit more. But I also need her to be present.
Only time will tell.