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Old 12-03-2013, 02:04 PM
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My advise to you is don’t let hypocritical people behind a wall who could be putting out, or even wanting to morthen you do sexually but telling you to deny enjoying sex which is the best thing in life that is free. Even if you are secretly have sexual cravings but denying it and will only find out later on. You never said you are a drug addict. You are not taking drugs or hurting children or any adult intentionally.

Keep on wanting as much sex as you can because if you were not having the desire to have sex something would be wrong with you. Its better to have the desire and want sex than not to have it lol. Unless you prefer to suppress the desire and become stressed and depressed! Just do it safely and discreetly. However avoid those men who keep wanting to match you up or pair you up with those other men who sound more like morons lol.Dont put out for men who choose other men for you.

Find yourself a capable man (men-stud) to feed you sexcitingly because what you need and want it not quantity sex its quality. Just make sure if you are going to open your legs for a man he is endowed and capable so you wont end up regretting it. A combination of emotional-sensual stimulation plus physical and oral sex on the menu is what you should be looking forward to and be digesting. So what you need is clean good sexciting sweetness, not quantity, quality is whets needed always. Sot the problem is not because you are or will be putting out, its for and with who because if or when you do it must be sexcitingly sweet lol.

Have sex as much as you can and want. Just make sure you put out discreetly and safely with a well endowed man (or men) discreetly who have a big cock (or cocks) and kinky minds so they-hey will sex you psychologically-emotionally physically and orally right in order to stimulate your mind body and soul. There is nothing to be ashamed of wanting sex even if you are married legally. With respect to your legal marriage. The only different from a real poly relationship than to your legally married one is because of the papers and conventional vows and etc. Stay in touch privately so I can communicate with you privately if needed!!

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Old 12-03-2013, 02:22 PM
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Hi, I'm Chris from this little place called Holland, very libererated place but moved recently.

I have been in the swinging scene for 25 years, reading your story I regocnized something.

Are you doing this for you or someone else? It looks like you are not doing it for you, let no one push you that is not love.

If you want to discover and you're comfortable, yeah fine it is ok to be nervous, undecided, but if you are pushed, don't go there.

I was Lucky and had lovely partners during my discovery, we loved each other and saw it as the cherry on the top. If we had couples around and we noticed she was pushed, no way, no sex tonight!

We Always stuck to that, it should be fun, if one person isn't happy, no way!

Be good, take care,

Chris.
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Old 12-03-2013, 05:27 PM
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Just do the right thing. Have as much sex as you want to as long as you maintain respect for your present marital situation, making sure you are discreet and good hygene is practic. Oh make sure the man is well endowed (smile) passionate have rhythm and apart from being physically capable he is also an oral art specialist lol.
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Old 12-03-2013, 05:36 PM
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Do your own thing. Unless you were appointed to represent everyone on this site with various ideas-thoughts. If living in a closet in the eyes of society works for you, but deep inside you are lusting thats ok too, because the only person you are ffoolliinngg is yourself. Your thoughts is as pure as a newborbn baby right? Then again if you are so fulfilled being married in the eyes of the government and is happy with it? Why are you here on this polyamory site? Lol.:

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Old 12-04-2013, 06:57 PM
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Real deal ... Go back to your porn fueled fantasy haze. Apparently you have some things to work through








Real deal ... Go back to your porn fueled fantasy haze. Apparently you have some things to work through
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Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.

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Lol. I see you have some crappy things to work out. Sorry i dont, plus this is a one time only reply because i have better things to do than to make you feel important. So you are married in the eyes of the government lol and that makes u exceptional lol. Who cares, you are not in the convent you are in the palyamory zone.

You are not the only on this site to be married (if you are for real behind the wall and is married). Your secong husband lol?? U know what maybe your life/relationship is crappy, however try getting it together and stop sending your negetive vibes trying to inject negetivity in other people lives. As for me i dont care because to me u dont exist. However mind your own business.

Since you are married in the eyes of the law and have a second husband lol? Is that not enough for you? Lol. U should do your own thing and stop acting as if you are superior to othes on this site. Plus unless you were appointed to represent others on this site, or critique others opinion/needs/desires shut up mind your own business and get a life.

U know what, maybe you are not as mentioned on your page, but someone strange behind a wall trying to impress othes, but in truth you are trippingggggg lol. You can be any and everything you want to be when hiding behind a wall lol. So who knows who and what you are? Get a Life.

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