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Old 12-02-2013, 11:48 PM
XnikolakiX XnikolakiX is offline
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Question my fiancee is leaving me for another man. need feed back.

My fiancee is the most beautiful woman I will ever know. I have grown to love her unconditionally. A year ago our relationship struggled. She was flirting with the notion of polyamory. She felt by nature that she is bisexual and polyamorous. I was floored and I refused to accept that kind of life for us. But there are some reasons why she feels she needs to leave me despite not truly wanting to. We will still live together for a short time. She does not feel she will ever love or be as lived again. She rhinks she may never be as comfortable with him. However he is more financially stable and she tires are of waiting for me to provide that. She also drawn to move to Denver. Despite the fact that success is forthcoming based on recent news. Rather than lose each other I would like to suggest a polyamorous solution!! Her heart will not need to be divided and the love will never stop. I can keep loving the only woman I have ever truly loved. I would prefer to be alone and have no one else. Therefore this seems the beat solution. I hope she can take some relief in this. I need feedback and opinions. I need suggestions. Keep in mind she alsodesires a normal llife too. But as she said in the past, if you are predisposed to polyamory u will always find ways to participate in it even if you try to surpress it. Is there any truth to that???

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